Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time that works for you (don't say "How about some time next week?") Mention fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific-EVER.
Tell me a little bit about yourself. Tell me where you heard about me. Don't waste my time--I do receive plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea what I'm going to be like in person. Its also your chance to start building a perception of you. Be respectful. I am a PERSON!! Treat me like you would a girlfriend or lover and I will respond positively. It sounds simple, but most guys can be pushy and/or rude!!
Now that you've made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much "cheap" cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would piss me off or cause me to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression!
4. Be confident and relaxed. Act like you've done this before. Greet me cordially. Give me a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look me in the eye. Be nice--it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts!
Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope or card is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly me if everything feels comfortable --but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. I mean Nothing!! Just hand it over in payment for my time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!
I will likely ask you if you would "...like to get comfortable?"
Talk to me--simple but very, very effective. Talk about or even compliment my attire, hairstyle, or even my perfume. Whatever, but be honest--phoniness shows up quickly. I like to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don't be pushy or grabby.
You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get. I am aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the alloted time.
If you encounter a "No!" response, then just don't break stride and be sure that you respect my guidelines. If its really, really important to you then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept my personal limits, treat me with respect and care, and you will have a good session anyway.
Be a gentle and considerate lover. Women operate on a much more sensitive level than men to. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell me when it feels good.
Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau.
If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing me again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated--figure this into your budget
Bonus Tip. The final thought here is to use common sense and civility at all times. The above points are mostly just that. Treat a person as you would like to be treated--with respect, kindness, caring, and genuine sensitive feelings.
That was some very useful info! Thanks for the tips! Women thank you too.